Raising Humans in the Age of Intelligent Machines

Children&Families

8 ARTICLES IN THIS DOMAIN

The decisions parents make about technology today will shape the kind of adults their children become tomorrow. These are explorations in raising humans, not just users, in the age of AI.

8 Articles
Children & Families10 min read

Raising Children in the Age of AI: What Parents Need to Know

I am a father of two, and I am raising them in a world I cannot fully predict. That uncertainty used to frighten me. Now it focuses me, because I have realised my job is not to prepare my children for a specific future. It is to build in them the human strength to meet any future well.

Read →
Children & Families9 min read

Technology and Family Life: Drawing the Lines That Matter

Every family is a small culture, with its own values, rhythms, and unspoken rules. The question no family can avoid in this age is simple. Will that culture be shaped by you, or will it be shaped, one notification at a time, by companies that have never met you.

Read →
Children & Families11 min read

Screens and Children: What Parents Actually Need to Know

Most writing about children and screens comes from a certainty that real parents do not have. We are raising children inside a technology we ourselves are still learning to handle and depend on for our own work. So I will not lecture. I will share what I have actually learned.

Read →
Children & Families10 min read

Raising Readers in the Age of Screens: Why Reading Matters More Than Ever

Some of the most formative hours of my childhood were spent inside books, in a world only my own imagination could build from words on a page. No screen has ever given me that exact thing. Now, as a father, I want to give my children that door more than almost anything else.

Read →
Children & Families12 min read

How to Talk to Your Children About AI: A Parent's Honest Guide

I am a father, and I work in AI, and I think about the conversation between those two facts more than almost any other. My children are growing up in a world where these systems will be ordinary, and how they understand them will shape a great deal of their lives. Most parents feel unequipped for this conversation. I want to give you a real framework for it, honest and practical, from someone who lives on both sides of the question.

Read →
Children & Families12 min read

Raising Children With Strong Identity in a Digital World

I think the hardest and most important task of parenting in this era is not managing screen time or picking the right apps. It is helping a child build a stable, secure sense of who they are, in a world full of systems designed to shape identity through comparison, engagement, and constant feedback. As a father, and as someone who understands how those systems work, this is the challenge I take most seriously. Let me share how I think about it.

Read →
Children & Families12 min read

How to Raise Emotionally Intelligent Children in a World That Rewards Performance

I am a father, and I have come to believe that the emotional intelligence I help my children build matters more than almost anything else I can give them. The world they are growing into rewards performance, achievement, and the appearance of confidence, and it is largely indifferent to their actual inner lives. So the work of raising emotionally healthy children has become quietly countercultural, and deeply important. Let me share how I think about it, from Port Harcourt, as a father who takes this seriously.

Read →
Children & Families12 min read

The Gift of Boredom: Why Children Need Unstructured Time More Than Ever

I have watched childhood fill up, scheduled and stimulated and entertained until there is no empty space left in it, and I have come to believe we are taking something important away without knowing it. Boredom, which we treat as a problem to eliminate, is actually one of the more valuable conditions of childhood, and it is vanishing. Protecting it has become one of the quietly countercultural things a parent can do, from Port Harcourt, and I want to explain why it matters so much.

Read →
Reading Paths

Follow Children & Families across a guided path.

From the Book

These questions run through The Soul and the Machine.

Enter the book →

The thinking continues in your inbox.